Dear Sandy,I am recently divorced after 23 years of marriage. I have been dating the father of my son's friend from school. He broke it off last night and though I am sorry I understand we were getting too close for him to be comfortable and I will find someone else !!! He has been divorced and living by himself for a long time and just is not ready to change that. Anyway, we both have agreed we want to remain friends because of the boys who kinda set us up. I am moving on.
My question is what shall I do with his Christmas gifts? My friends all say take them back to the store.
I bought them especially for him and I want him to have them. What do you think ?
Teresa
Dear Teresa,
I have this same problem with Bud's gifts, my current internet obsession.
One was an arial photo of a thousand wild horses in the Flint Hills which we had talked about on the phone as I drove & had seen for the very first time myself. The other was a CD of
Jason Mraz "I'm Yours," He had said that to me several times. Anyway, there's no taking those things back. What I did take back was a Victoria's Secret bra with a "P" for him (Pussy Lover), I wanted to keep, but it would have always made me sad/mad. Long answer to a short question is yes, get your money back. If you went ahead & gave him your meaningful gifts, it could embarrass him & make you both feel bad if he has nothing for you.
You know later he'll want you back after you've moved on.
Go quickly.
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